An Expert's Guide to Buying a Bespoke Engagement Ring For Your Partner

Buying an engagement ring for your partner is one of the most special (and probably nerve-wracking) moments of your life. With thousands of options available, how do you know you’ve made the right decision for your special person? 

If you want a ring that’s as unique as the person you love, a bespoke engagement ring is a beautiful way to create a truly one-of-a-kind piece. In this guide to buying an engagement ring, our expert jewellers will show you exactly how to create something that’s perfectly unique. This way, you can be completely confident in your once-in-a-lifetime purchase.

Why Choose Bespoke? 

There are so many pre-made engagement rings to choose from. However, if you haven’t found exactly what you’re looking for, or you want to add specific personal touches, a bespoke and / or handmade ring means you can create a masterpiece to match your vision. 

A bespoke design may also be more suited to your budget, as we can include lab grown diamonds, natural diamonds or special stones together in one ring.

Family Heirlooms

Special stones often carry with them significant sentimental value. If you or your partner wants to incorporate something from a family heirloom, a jeweller specialising in bespoke and handmade pieces can redesign existing pieces to create something completely new, while preserving the emotional significance of the original stone. 

At Wedstones, we can also combine multiple family pieces – encompassing heirlooms from both your family, and your partners. This way, you can design a ring that features multiple special stones, at whatever size, clarity and colour you choose. 

You Have A Specific Idea

Maybe you've seen elements from different rings that you love, or your partner has shown you inspiration photos that combine various design features. If you’re especially creative, you may have even sketched out an idea or have a clear vision that doesn't exist in any ready-made collection. 

Bespoke design allows you to bring these specific ideas to life. Our designers can take your concept – whether it's a rough sketch, a collection of inspiration photos, or even just a detailed description – and turn it into your partner's perfect, timeless ring. 

 

Engraving

Engraving special messages into engagement and wedding rings has become increasingly popular in the last few years. Consider engraving a special message, the coordinates of where you first met, a line from "your song," or even an inside joke only you two would understand. 

Designing Your Ring

Before you begin the design process, make sure you know your partner's jewellery preferences. This detective work is so important for creating a ring they'll love wearing every day.

For example:

  • Do they tend to wear silver, gold or rose gold?

  • Do they lean toward cool or warm tones?

  • Are they wearing bold statement pieces, or more subtle and understated ones?

  • Do they wear lots of colour?

Pay attention to Pinterest boards, saved Instagram posts, or rings they admire on friends. These are goldmines of information! 

Sizing 

Sizing an engagement ring is really tricky… try and get hold of a ring your partner already owns for the initial design. Don’t stress too much about this though, as they’re likely to need the ring adjusted afterward.

Our Bespoke Design Service 

Step 1: Initial Consultation

At Wedstones, our process begins with an initial relaxed design consultation. During this meeting, we take the time to gain an understanding of your ideas, vision, and the significance of the piece.

We'll often discuss:

  • Your partner's style preferences

  • Your budget parameters

  • Metal choices (platinum, white gold, yellow gold, rose gold)

  • Special stone options (diamond, sapphire, emerald, etc.)

  • Design elements and inspiration

  • Any specific themes, symbols, or engraving

This consultation is completely free with no obligation to proceed!

Step 2: Design Concept

Based on the information gathered during the initial consultation, we will create a design of your bespoke engagement ring for you. This can include sketches, digital renderings, even a 3D wax model of the ring - free of charge. When you have a visual representation of your piece, we encourage feedback to ensure our design perfectly matches your vision. 

Along with the agreed design, we will provide you with an exact price for you to consider – you will still be under no obligation to proceed.

Step 3: Casting

With your new bespoke engagement ring design and price approved, the casting process begins. Your chosen high-grade metal is melted and poured into a mould, taking the shape of your design. 

Step 4: Setting The Stones

Our expert gemstone setter then meticulously places and secures your chosen gemstones. This step demands precision and extreme attention to detail, ensuring that each stone is aligned perfectly and securely in its correct place.

Step 5: Polishing and Finishing

This is where your ring really starts to sparkle and shine. After a series of polishing and hand finishing processes, you’ll be able to see the lustre of the metal and brilliance of the stones. 

Step 6: Presentation 

When we’ve finished meticulously crafting your ring, it will be presented to you in a beautiful eco-friendly box.

Why Choose Wedstones for Your Bespoke Ring?

At Wedstones, we create beautiful handmade and bespoke engagement rings for couples across the UK. We offer a relaxed, no “hard sell” service, so you can design your partner's dream ring whenever you’re ready. 


If you’d like to book a free, no-obligation service, please book a consultation today. Alternatively, send us an email or WhatsApp message with any questions you may have. We’re here to help you make the perfect choice for your special moment.

 


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